Children. They can either be legal or biological. Childhood offers a brief opportunity for parents and children to share intimate moments of love and respect. Time well spent with one’s child is an investment for the future.
So, What is a Child?
- Fruit of marriage. Married couples who love each other welcome the arrival of the fruit of their becoming one flesh.
- Miracle of conception. Not all wives are capable of conceiving . The Bible calls the sexual union of a couple as intimate knowing. Through this avenue, they can bear a child that will add joy to their relationship.
- Bonding factor in marital affair. A child can either enhance and deepen the marriage relationship or become a headache to his or her parents. He or she is an antidote against a couple’s selfishness and self-centeredness. He or she is the cement that glues marital bonding.
- Mentor in parenting. Couples can never learn the lessons of parenting without a child mentoring them.
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After giving birth I had this feeling of emptiness. A feeling which is hard to understand and I just feel like I need some sort comfort. For about three months time had hardly recovered from giving birth, Worried that I can’t do the entire thing that I use to do. Every time I face the mirror, I always remind myself lose weight, I’m so plump. Everything has changed. My daily routine, body figure and I have less time to my husband. Mostly, I can’t go almost anywhere, can’t get to the place where I wanted to simply because I have to consider my situation and to give more time to my baby. He is now my new life, my treasure. About this post natal period I had been feeling sensitive. I get easily irritated most of the time, have feelings of insecurity. I want much attention from my husband.
As I research about post natal I found out that these were all normal feelings. Just give time to yourself to fully recovery from giving birth.